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So a friend of mine was debating with me about "friends with benefits" They were saying that it's better for people to be FWB (friends with benefits) than an actual relationship. I found this shocking. I mean seriously? How could anyone say that! he then asked me my opinion and i replied simply with that's ridiculous. Being in a FWB requires you to turn off your emotions i know for a fact (researching alot) that most women do not turn off there emotions and so become emotional attached, by doing so they risk the fear of getting hurt and the other recipient isn't looking for a "relationship".
Some women feel that men are much more suited for this FWB attitude as they can turn their emotions off and then not be involved emotionally. But i feel that maybe just maybe some men actually have feelings for the other person but again can't do anything about it so they suck it up. Be a man. And continue with this limitless commitment.
I dunno I guess I'm abit iffy (unsure) when it comes to friends with benefits. I myself would love to be in a committed relationship, i don't get a FWB. I don't get how two people are willing to be in some sort of agreement just for sex and nothing else. Are people that sad that they can't face reality and be an adult and responsible.
Is anyone in a FWB? if so tell me about your experiences? how did you feel about it?
Do you agree or disagree?
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